~WRITER'S BLOC AND OTHER STORIES~

:-That's a picture of me performing on stage with the band i play with....-:

Hey luvs.....Its your very own Fashinga checking in to see how y'all are doing... I've been having a bad case of writer's bloc as i haven't been able to write anything for a while now.. It's almost like all my inspiration flew out the window...I'm sure that i'm the worst blogger out there, what with not updating frequently and all, but pardon my discrepancy (if i may use that word) i just want y'all to know that i'm still alive and i haven't fallen into a pit or something...lol!!

The fall semester just started about a week ago and so far, this semester has the prospects of being a fun-filled one...So many new and Interesting faces..hmmmmm... I've got a couple of papers to write already...Mennn these professors waste no time at all... As a matter of fact, i'm in the library now...I've been doing some internet research and i just decided to take a break for while and do some blogging.. (The things i do for luv..lol!!) So,this post is going to be quite random with little bits of this and that...

Anyway, i went to six flags about two weeks ago with some of my friends and i meant to put up the pics but i never got around to...We had so much fun and it was nice to just chill and forget all worries.. I even got a tatoo!!! (of course it was temporary... I don't think i've got the guts to get a real tatoo. I'm extremely scared of needles)


L-R: Jessica, Sapphire, Cest moi and Faith.


L-R: Faith, Jessica and Me.


L-R: Jessica, Sapphire, Me and Faith.

In the light of other stories, i met a guy a few days ago who reminds me of a guy i once used to date... He's extremely real ( which was why i became enarmoured instantly) plus he's got the cutest dreamy eyes you ever saw...I like him but unfortunately, i know it won't last... I think the last guy i dated took all my emotions with him 'cos i haven't been able to retain whatever feelings i might have had for any guy since then... After a while i get bored or tired of whoever i'm with... The thing is i don't do it intentionally.... I just can't feel anything for ANY guy....I have a problem and i need help....Or is it just because i haven't met the RIGHT guy? What do y'all think?

I was browsing thru youtube and i came across a few Nigerian music videos and i absolutely LOVEEEEE them... Check them out if you haven't seen them..

Banky's new video: Strong thing: This video is BANGING. I rate it ten stars...Plus y'all know i'm crazy about Banky W.. He's sooo adorable..lol!! Someone should tell him to marry me..


Naeto c: Ringtone : I did'nt really like him at first but i've totally fallen for him.. This video is the bomb!! Good job...


Rita blowing grammer : I'm sure most of you have seen this...It's rib-cracking funny... I can't help but shake my head and say 'NO LONG TIN!'


- Like when they are coming to Nigeria, during the hairport.
-If they are in the hairport they will be hafraid because of the criminals and yahoo yahoo guys
-Because we Nigerians, majoritin of us, we do demons
-Outside the country, like outside the country, them feel every bad things is with us
-We are supposed to call the EFCC, like this EFCC now, know EFCC, they're under YAHOO
-They do pick YAHOO guys but they dont have the things that they will use
-Cos yahoo guys,most of them they use jass and other things.
-Ouside the country, outside Nigeria, they feel we are the most demon people, like jass, different things...
-They feel Nigeria are not safety enough..

OMG!!!! i laughed for hours on end... But i gotta give it to her though, she's got a lot of confidence for someone who deosn't even know how to speak proper English... What i wonder though, is how she was able to get past the auditions...What were the criterion for choosing these girls??? Lord have mercy....D'banj oh!!!!!!!! lol!! Well, at least she didnt win..

That's all for today folks, did u guys miss me?? Show me that you did by telling me so...Just click on where it says 'add comment'... lol!! A girl's gotta feel loved sometimes u know... *Wink*



*I decided to play with make-up a little....This was the result... :-)*

Later Luvs...Kisses!!
F.

Wedding Bells.....

Robert Peters!! When you hear that name...what comes to mind?? He's a tall, dark, and handsome hunk known for his fierce bad boy look and his deep rich baritone...Remember him?? i"m sure lovers of Nigerian home videos will... He used to thrill the ladies and make the guys envious back when he was on screen...Well, he's been away from the movie scene for some years now. He currently resides in America and he's into film making and documentary...



Robert is a very good friend of mine and someone i hold very close to my heart...I'm sure even he doesn't know that...lol!! I dedicate this post to this wonderful person who always makes me smile...

Robert Peters just tied the knot very recently in Atlanta GA to a very beautiful woman who is also an artiste from the congo...She is an actress and musician who is known as 'Soleil Diva'

Below are some pics from the glamorous wedding







Robert to me, can be defined as a brilliant mix of dexterity, articulation and intellect.. He was and still remains one of my favorite actors and one of the warmest people i have ever known. Robert peters.. You are an amazing person, someone i don't regret knowing... I'm so happy for you...Congratulations on your marriage...May GOd give both of you the grace, endurance, understanding and all it takes to make your union last...






My dear readers...and fellow citizens of blogsville....Thanks for stopping by and leaving your wonderful comments...they mean a lot to me...I'll be back soon...Love you guys..

Later Luvs...Kisses!!
F.

When Catastrophe struck..

So i took some time off blogging to mourn the loss of the king of pop MJ.

Yeah right!! That's totally a lie.. What?! I could'nt think of any other excuse to give you guys..I know i've been bad lately. Blogging sporadically, not replying to comments and hardly making my blog rounds. I'm so sorry luvs, please forgive me. I've been working like crazy and i havent had the time but i promise to change..Also, i would like to thank everyone who left a comment on my post, The case of the Ex. Your words meant soooo much to me and i'm proud to say that i've moved on with my life. I took your advice and i'm not even in contact with him right now. Just what i needed.. I'm sending you guys hugs right back!!

That being said, I got a call from my sister two days ago and long after we'd finished talking, i was in shock and incredibly thankful to God for my life..
My luvs,here's the gist...

My sister called me and said "Fashinga, do you remember what happened to you some years ago at the Presidential hotels in Portharcourt?"
After she refreshed my memory, i responded "Yes i do..Why?" and then she proceeded to tell me the shocking story.. I know i'm confusing you guys right now but let me start from the begining.

A few years ago, my uncle who was in America, had sent me some money via western union and after collecting the money, i had gone to a particular 'mallam'(Mallam usually signifies muslim men from the north of Nigeria) friend of mine who was into 'bureau de change' to convert the money to Naira.

When i was done, as i was about to cross the street to where there was a gathering of 'okada'(Okada is the Nigerian term for motorcycle) drivers, i noticed a sleek black landcruiser jeep with dark tinted windows that stopped for me to cross.

After crossing I had taken a few steps when i heard someone call me from behind.

"Hey, hey.. Excuse me miss."

So i turn around to see who's calling. He's a tall, skinny, dark skinned man.. About 6ft 2.. His eyes were bloodshot looking and his palms looked very hard and calloused. He was dressed respectably in a blue, buttoned up longsleeved shirt and black khaki pants.

"Yes, how can i help you" I said

" I'm sorry to take up your time" he said politely "but did you happen to notice the car that stopped for you to cross the road?"
i nodded and he continued " Well, i'm the driver of that car. My boss noticed you as you crossed, and he likes you so he asked me to come and speak to you"

"Is that so? What about?" I asked very disintrestedly.

He smiled cockily and edged a little closer to me, speaking in a lower tone " You see sister, my boss is a very rich man. He is a white expatriate and he's doing business in Nigeria. You are very lucky to have caught his attention"

I arched my eyebrow when i heard that and the guy continued " I tell you, my Oga spends 'dollars.'( With emphasis on dollars. My Nigerian people will understand what i mean by this) He will shower you will lots of dollars and all he wants right now is for you to have lunch with him.."

I laugh for a few seconds and say " Look, i dont have time for all this, as you can see, i was going somewhere and i'm very busy. Tell your oga i'm not interested in his dollars" and with that, i turned to leave but he held me back

" I know you're a wise girl and you won't let this oppurtunity pass you by"

I wanted to give him a rude comeback and tell him to buzz off, but i changed my mind. Instead i said " Ok i have heard you.. I will go out with your oga but i cant follow you all the way to your car, people will notice me. Why dont you go and turn around? i'll wait right here for you"

He seemed pleased to hear that, and as soon as he turned around, i walked straight to where an okada was parked and boarded one home without looking back...

Now that you know about the 'incident' that my sister was reffering to, let me fastfoward to the future.

My sister called to tell me that a particular cousin of mine had been involved in a very similar incident that turned out to be almost fatal.

Now let me a little background info on this cousin of mine.. She's a very lively and fun person to be with. she doesnt take life too seriously and believes in her policy " There's only one life to live so live it to the fullest!"

She loves adventure and Men! Yes men! She's the type that would follow friends to parties out of state if she heard that there was gonna be a loaded guy from 'abraod' that she could possibly land.

So that fateful day, a similar thing had happened to her but knowing my cousin, it was no surprise to hear that she followed the so called 'driver' to the car but unfortunately for her, the supposed 'white' man that she expected to meet, turned out to be two hefty guys who immediately put a bag over her head when she got into the car. According the her, (from what my sister said) the last thought on her mind before she passed out was "Oh my God. I'm going to die"

She (my cousin) said she woke up in a room in a dark uncompleted building to find six other girls. they all had their hands tied to their backs and some were crying hysterically.. It immediately hit her that she had been caught by ritualists.

Well, let me cut the long story short 'cos this post is getting too lenghty...
They had come to take her away to perhaps meet her death and she was taken to a Native doctor who was supposed to perform some ritual before they hack her into pieces.But when she got there, the Native doctor looked at her strangely and told the other guys that her spirit was not good and if they used her for the medicine, she would spoil it and it wouldnt work.
So they were instructed to take her back. After they dropped her back in the room, she was exchanged with another girl,leaving just her and one more girl remaining. Before they left, she heard one of the guys telling another that they still had to kill her anyway.

When they left, the guy who was supposed to be guarding them had left probably to take a piss for a few mins so with survival on her mind, she decided to take a chance at escaping. Since she had been left untied, she helped the other girl out of the rope that bound her hands and they both slipped thru the open door and ran for their lives. The guy that was supposed to be gaurding them soon discovered that they had escaped and so he started running after them. She said the most shocking for her was when the guy threw an axe and it hit the other girl on the back. As she heard the blood chilling scream of the other girl as she fell, tears clouded her eyes and she just kept running as fast as her legs could take her without even pausing to look back..

Finally, she got to a clearing where she found two women fishing in the pond. So she frantically begged them to help her. They took her in their boat and she later found out that she was in a village called Omoku in Rivers state on the outskirts of Portharcourt.. With the help of the two women, she got to a motor park where she was able to board a bus back to portharcourt.

My sister told me that my cousin is still in shock and was just able to tell the story 'cos she hasnt been able to speak for a while now.

After what i heard, i was also in shock and still am, but for different reasons.. I kept thinking of what happened to me and how i left and took an okada home.
I kept wondering what would have become of me, had i entered that car. Would i have been as lucky as my cousin was,or would i be long gone now. I just thank God for saving my life as well as the life of my cousin though she learnt the hard way.

I'm sure God let her go through the experience to teach her a lesson. As for me, all those years of my mother telling me "Dont follow people you dont know" paid off. I was not phased by the 'white' man or the 'dollars'. And these guys (ritualists) use these techniques to lure Nigerian girls.

Well all i can do is just thank God because, there would have been no Fashinga by now and i wouldnt have met wonderful people like you guys..lol!!

I won't be gone for long again! I promise..Thanks for your comments and love..It means soo much to me. I LOVE YOU!

Later Luvs..Kisses!!
F.

Micheal Jackson is Dead!!

I just came back from work and settled down to update my blog. On a whim, i turn on my T.v set and switch to CNN only to find the headlines reading 'MICHEAL JACKSON IS DEAD".
Immediately, my heart ctapulted to my chest.. I stared at the TV set in shock for about 15 mins and before i knew it, tears had started rolling down my cheek. I mean, i never thought that i would ever cry for someone i didnt even know personally but i just couldnt help it. Micheal has influenced millions of people around the globe and he remains the greatest artiste ever.





Through his evergreen songs, he has touched souls, changed lives and inspired great talents all over the world. He is a LEGEND and will be remembered for decades to come. My heart is aching for the loss of this great man who died at the tender age of 50. DAmn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Too sad





This post is dedicated to you MICHEAL. May your soul rest in perfect peace.

The Case of the Ex (Long Post)

" I can't take this anymore Kenny..I'm tired of your constant comparison of the two of us. I'm not her and i will never be her. If you love her so much, how come you're with me and not her. You know what, why dont you go sort yourself out ok?"

A few split seconds later, the sound of my phone hitting the wall with a loud crash filled my eardrums.

Some moments later, as i scuttled over to pick up and piece together the parts of my phone, i felt the tears that i had been trying so hard to hold back trickle down my cheeks, and before long, i was crying hysterically. Why did i love him so damn much? Why did he keep expecting me to be like her? Wasn't i trying my best?

In just a short while, he had broken through my defenses and taken a strong hold of my heart and now it seemed everything he did was with an intention to hurt me.

You see, he was hurting as well...He was hurting for different reasons...He was hurting because of her... "The Ex".

Where do i start? Well, let me start from the beginning

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He was barely months out of the relationship and he couldn't get past the fact that it was over.. A few months after their break-up, he met me and we instantly hit it off.
I was enamored by his charms. He was all i wanted in a man. Handsome, Intelligent, understanding, caring and much more. We had a great connection and the 'chemistry' between us was strong.
After a few weeks, as i got to know more about him, i learnt about 'her'. It had been over for seven months now he said.He had apparently hurt her a lot and he felt guilty for the pain he caused her. Even though I could see that he still had feelings for this woman, i reasoned that it was realistic since he had been with her for years before the break-up. I could empathize with him, knowing how long it took me to get over my Ex as well.

I Ignored all the warning bells that warned me of the heart-wrenching pain that was to come and i proceeded to care for this man. It was not my intention to fall in love with him. No it was not my Intention to give my all to him.. I was caught unawares that day when he softly whispered "I Love you" into my ears as he held me close to him...

I didn't realize it at the time,call it stupidity or whatever but i now i see that i was his rebound. The first person he'd run to after 'her'. He needed someone to help him get over her. Someone to help erase the memories of her from his head. A substitute for her, and i unfortunately was that person.

As time progressed, he constantly expected me to act like her, think like her... so much so that he couldn't even see the unique person that i was.. Nothing i did appealed to him as long as i didn't do it like 'her'..It hurt me so darn much to see that i wasn't appreciated for who i was. I had lost that sweet and sensitive man i met at first.. All i saw was this frustrated man, who complained about everything i did. Why couldn't i just leave then?? I asked myself everyday while crying on my bed.. I loved him so much and i couldn't explain it.

A few weeks after, we had a long talk and decided to take a break from our 'farce' of a relationship, and settle for being just friends. 'Cos in truth, all he ever saw me as was a friend not a lover..
In the safety of my room, i cried over and over again.. something that had somewhat become a routine. The thing is he never saw me cry because i was always sure to put up a strong appearance when i saw him. I'd never let him think I'm weak..NEVER.

He calls me two days later and we decide to meet up. I was happy when i saw him and for a moment, i was oblivious to any pain. We laughed, talked and for the time being, the frustrated and depressed part of him was gone thankfully.

But a few hours later, my mood changes as I'm reminded by my forlorn heart all to soon that he never loved me like he'd claimed to. this mood swing does not go unnoticed and he too soon catches the bug..

"Don't get me wrong, i care about you. you have no idea.. but i've never loved anybody as much as i love her. All the time we haven't been together, i've been trying so hard to pretend that everything is all right but its not. I can't live without her. My life is meaningless and nothing interests me anymore.I just want to die! I just want to end my life!" He said all these to me in between sobs as he violently shook in my arms from crying.

I tried as much as i could to console him while my heart broke into a thousand pieces. I'm hurting so bad.. To love him so much and realize that whatever feelings he had claimed to have for me were all lies and she was the only one he loved with all his heart...

He begged me to help him talk to her, he said he's told her the way he feels for her but maybe she'd change her mind if she hears it from someone else.. but can i really go and convince another woman to take back the man that i love?

It hurts to know that all the times he spent with me, he really just wanted to be with her. All the good times we had, when we would laugh and play was all 'pretense' like he said. All the times he looked in my eyes and said he loved me, he was lying through his teeth.

What have i done wrong to him, to deserve this pain.. I don't blame him though. I blame this foolish thing called love, that makes people do stupid things without thinking. Once again, I'm a victim.

I told him i'll always be there for him, and i'll always be his friend to see him through his pain even though its killing me.. but must he think that I'm void of feelings?
This is the end of the road for me. I need some relief from this hurt that i feel. I need a release..

Revolutionary...

Hey Good people of Blogger! How are y'all doing?? I've been gone for a minute,but now i'm back!!! For those of you who've been checking on me every now and then, again i want to say Thank you so much...I love you guys.




Honestly there's been so much going on with me. Things i've been trying hard to acomplish, hurdles that i need to cross.. So much! but i can glady say that i've been succesful so far.

I've been wanting to blog for a while now but i never had the chance. Anyway,thats not the real reason why i have'nt been here.. For a while now, i've been feeling like there's so much stuff i need to change in my life.

I feel that we all get to a point in our lives when we see the need to re-invent ourselves, lose bad friends,lose bad habits, and create a better and new improved you. This is that point for me where i feel its imperative to improve the person that i am, and also alter if not entirely change my view on life.
This is my revolution in process and so far, it's been the best descision i've made..

Being that i'm going thru this 'Re-processing'. Its also going to affect this blog greatly.. Not in the way some of you might be thinking though..No! I'm not leaving.. As a matter of fact, i feel like i just got here. I'm going to change the direction which this blog is going and take it to a whole different level.. Introduce things that i havent done before, and basically add some spices. So all of y'all better watch this space..

Also, i'm not going to be blogging completely under anonymity as i've been doing, however i will still be using a pseudonym...

Anyway, I finally saw Night at the museum starring Ben stiller and Owen wilson and Terminator Salvation starring Christian Bale and Common (ooh i love that guy). Both of them were good movies, but i really enjoyed the latter because it was, rib-cracking funny.. Those of you who have'nt seen them, should do so...ASAP!




So far, Summer is beggining to look pretty good.. SO many things on my To-Do list.. The prospect of some excitement!! Well, lets just wait and see..

Now for those of you who've been wondering what Fashingaa looks like, hmmmm... Scroll down...




LOL!!






VOILA (Fashinga)



C'est moi!!

J'aime à vous tous. mes enfants chéris. Merci beaucoup. Reviens

Later Luvs..Kisses!!
F.

VOO-DOO OR GIFT?? YOU TELL ME..

Hey Luvs!!! I know, I Know….Before you say anything, I just want to say that there’s been sooooo much stuff going on in my life and I’m sorry that I’ve not updated my blog for about a month now, thanks to everyone who’s been coming every now and then to check up on me ….Y’all are the best.

Honestly, there is so much that I need to get sorted out in my life right now, and I’ve been extremely busy. I’ve hardly had time for myself, and I haven’t been on blogger in a long time as well.

I made up my mind that I was gonna post something today, and I already started it as a draft yesterday, but something really spectacular happened today and I just had to blog about it….I AM F**KING FREAKED OUT RIGHT NOW. My hands are shaking even as I type….

Let me give you a rundown on how it started…

I had gone to the cafeteria in school to get something to eat after classes, ‘cos I was mad hungry… I sat down to enjoy my meal with a friend of mine, (my friend’s name is Timmy) when this Guy walks by... My friend calls out to him, says hi, and then turns to me and says:
“Fashinga, this guy right here is really gifted…he has the gift of mind reading”

Of course, I scoff and go “Yeah Right…don’t we all”

Timmy says” I’m telling you…for real. I had the same reaction when I first met him too but this dude will read your mind”

I look ‘dude’ up and down uninterestedly... He’s about 5 ft 5” short; dark skinned African American, cute, but has a weird look about him… After sizing him up, I turn back to my food…sighing heavily…I’m thinking, I have better things to do with my time, and so many important things on my mind, to be wasting time with this joker…

After Timmy’s constant and quite annoying prodding, I decide to give him a try and I politely ask him to take the seat directly opposite me...

After he sits down, he tells me to take off my glasses so he can ‘look into my eyes’, and then he says “ First of, we’re gonna start with what I call, the question and answer session…As it is, I don’t know you so any question will be hard, but I want you to dig deep and ask me a question that I would never know”

I don’t think too hard, and then I ask him casually “What’s my mother’s name?”

He smiles, in a very freaky way and scribbles something in a piece of paper that he’d already cut out... When he’s done writing, he balls up the paper and passes it to Timmy, and then he asks me to say it. (My Mum’s name)

Arching my brow cockily, I mouthed the words “Stella…That’s her name”

Dude smiles again and asks Timmy to reveal what was in the balled up paper…Timmy showed it to me and my jaw literally fell to the floor!!!! He did not only get my mum’s name, but her maiden name and her husband’s name as well… Mind you, even Timmy does not know my Mum’s name...

I sat up in my chair this time but I was still not convinced…u know how it is with us humans…we’re so doubtful. I asked him a couple more questions like ‘who was my first love?’ ‘what was my nickname in high school’ and some other ’personal’ questions that NO ONE…I repeat NO ONE in this world but me knows, and he got them all right.

At this point, people had started gathering round our table and soon audible shrieks of ‘wow!!’ and ‘damn’ could be heard, as he was doing the same thing to other people..

I was finally convinced, but that was not even what freaked me out…while he was wowing others…I was quietly thinking to myself, this dude must surely have some evil powers…
At that moment, he stopped what he was doing and stared me straight in the eyes, like he could see through me... I felt my heartbeat accelerate for a second and then he said

“No, my dear…I’m not evil, I don’t worship the devil so stop thinking that...” That, my dears, was my undoing. I mean, How the F**k did he know what I was thinking??

I immediately stood up from the chair and almost ran out of the place; I could hear a girl scream “get out of my head” as I left.

Timmy quickly caught up with me as I left, laughing hysterically and saying “I told you so” over and over again

You see, Timmy believes that this guy is gifted by God and his powers are in No way evil… Now, I’m not a superstitious person but this is what I believe. Its either Good or evil… and the vibe I was getting from that guy was not very good at all.

Maybe, it’s the way he looks at you, like he can see everything in your head, and the very freaky way he smiles, when he’s read your mind… I don’t know but regardless of Timmy saying “Puh-lease…there is no such thing as evil powers. They are gifts from God and it is left for the recipient to decide if he or she wants to use it for good or bad”

Yeah right!!! Hear hear!! Call me ignorant…I don’t really care but its not everyday you see someone who can tell you exactly what you’re thinking..
All I know is, I’m going to church on Sunday to prayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Lol!!

I’m sorry that this post was this lengthy…I don’t really like lengthy posts myself. I promise that I won’t be gone this long again.

So what do you guys think?? Voodoo or gift?

Later Luvs…Kisses!!!
F.

Gist Mistress..

Wazzup people!! Ki lon happen? (What's happening?)I know my title is corny but i couldnt think of any title (WHAT!!)

I'm super pissed right now...Pissed i say. Can you imagine?? All my plans to fool people on April 1st, proved abortive and i'm still fuming.. No on fell for my pranks...NO ONE!!!!!

Anyway, all in all, i've had an exciting week so far..I'm gonna start performing at this cool new place every friday and the pay is good.

So I shot a commercial two days ago for an Insurance company in Dc (District of columbia) and it was mad fun.. It was meant to be a funny commercial and we had to do a little acting.. So here's the concept..

A guy leaves his girlfriend (Me) for a another chick, but the girlfriend is not letting him off easily..In her bid to get him back, she and her sidekicks (her two gangster friends) threaten to key his car (Interpretation: bash/dismantle the body of his car..lol) if he doesnt come back to her..But the dude is not phased by her hysterical threats because of the reliability of his insurance company since the car is fully insured..

Simple concept, but definitely hilarious..and i had to play the crazy ass enstranged girlfriend..

Anyway here's a random question: Why is London called Jand and America called Yankee??

Ok let me give y'all a little gist. I met this guy at a party last week..Nice guy, gorgeous.. you know, very smooth and suave(maybe not so much..hehehe) Found out he was a Nigerian..

We got talking and i got to find out more about him.. He organizes shows/concerts and brings artistes like D'banj,Tu face and the likes of them here to perform..Apparently, my band had performed at one of the shows he sponsored last year and i didnt even know it (Small world eh?)

Quite frankly, with what i'd learnt about him, i was more interested in discussing business, than pleasure and i made that very clear.( I mean, he was cute and all, but for some reason, i just wasnt feeling him...something was amiss.) We talked business for a while, exchanged contacts and things were going quite well..

Just when the deal was finalized and i was about to contemplate discussing 'pleasure',this dude made the biggest mistake ever..He started feeling on me!! We were sitting at the time, and he edged closer to me, breathing down my neck,and he was running his hands all over my thighs in the most disgusting way ever.. Blatant lust written all over him (Ok i admit..i'm quite sexy..lmao!! but get a hold of yourself man!!!) Whatever gave him the idea that acting like that was cool ( Well maybe it is, if its done right!!)
Now one thing about me is that i get grossed out easily and having a dude feel me out like that especially when i'm just meeting him for the first time is a big NO NO. call me wierd but wareva men!! lol

I won't tell you how that episode ended..Not because i dont want to, but because i'm so lazy right now and my fingers are tired..plus, i dont really like long posts..
All i can say is, that dude has been blowing up my phone like crazy and No, he's not interested in continuing our business conversations at least not until he gets some..I dont even care men!! he can go to hell for all i care..Why are men like that??? (Ok, sorry Roc, Danny and all the other males reading this) but still..All guys wanna do is 'DO'..lmao!!

To all y'all who've left me comments, viewed my page, or even come here by mistake sef...I just wanna say...You guys Rock!!!! I apreciate the love... These kisses are for you, straight from the heart!!






Later Luvs!!!

F.

TAGGED !!! BY BSNC... HONEST SCRAP SOMETHING...

So i've been tagged by BSNC..I think it means i have to be honest or something..I dont even know..lol!! Anyway, sit back relax and enjoy..Wait!! I think you should also pop some popcorn while you're at it. hehe

1. I'm a twin!! Oh this is a honest scrap meme?? Dang!! I forgot..Ok, i'm not a twin but i was supposed to be one only that my twin sister decided at the last minute that she didnt wanna follow me on this life's journey and she dissapeared from the womb right b4 we heard the doctor say PUSH!!!..COWARD!! lol

2. I hate Ironing with a passion..I only do it 'cos i have to..My mum knows how much i hate it and when i was younger, if she wanted to punish me, she would give me loads of clothes to iron..arrgh..That woman!!!

3. Ok, i'm only writing this as an after thought...Most times before i go somewhere, especially if i'm going on a date, I picture the scenario in my head and sometimes, even act it out in front of a mirror...I also practice my 'killer' smile..One flash and you're hooked..Guys be warned..lol

4.Speaking of mirrors, Damn!!!! i love Mirrors to death...I think it was created for me..I can spend hours in front of a mirror admiring myself..(I'm vain..I know) Dont blame me, you would admire me too if you were me.( Wait! Did that last sentence make any sense?? *scratching my head* lol!!)

5.I'm singer..Not a recording artiste put i play gigs,shows etc..with my band..Temite, when you and FBA decide to start a family, just call my container number and i'll come and sing at your baby's dedication.

6.I can be very impatient sometimes..Honestly!! The thing i hate most in the world is waiting for something or somebody.It makes my blood boil and i get real mad!!! Although, there's been only one time where i could'nt even dare be mad..It was when i was at the US embassy in Lagos..I got there 6am and left 6pm..I waited eh!!!Omo!! I jus recpect myself jejely..i cant fit shout..That place humbles u men!! lol

7.In my lifetime, i had crushes on so many celebrities, i cant even count..When i was twelve, i got married to RMD in my head..Since then, I've had kids with Goerge Clooney, gone to Hawai with Enrique Iglesias and grown old with Jim Iyke..all in this head of mine..My present crush is Banky W.. Please any one who knows him should tell him to marry me..

8. Did i mention i'm also an aspiring author..I've finished my first book titled REFLECTIONS. COMING SOON from the Fashinga stables..Very soon i'll be saying "GO GRAB YOUR COPY NOWWWWWWWWW"

9. I love drinking Garri and groundnut or fried fish..Even when my house is overflowing with food, i'll still prefer drinking garri...I dunno, i get some pleasure from It..I wear prescribed glasses..Mumsy has been blaming the Garri for years..Wareva men..lol

10. Finally we're on number ten!! phew! I thought we were never gonna get there..hmmm let me see.Aha!! I cant swim..(Yes close your mouth.When did you learn how to swim? *hiss* lol) I mean, i decieve myself that i can but deep down, i know i cant swim to save my life! I'll just be dabbling in the shallow side of the pool pretending like i'm only there cos i love hanging out with 'the kids'..I never saunter to the deep part..Who dash me mind?

Now's the part where i have to tag 7 sweethearts..I Tag Rocnaija, Africanweightlossdiva,Original mgbeke,Nigerian Drama Queen,Shonvixen,Temite and Misslove..

PS: My heartfelt thanks to all of you who wished me a happy birthday yesterday..God knows you made my day.You guys are the best. Luv y'all.

Later luvs...Kisses!!
F.

Happy Born-day to meeeeeeeeeeee!!!!

*Singing in my nightingale voice* "Fashinga's a jolly good fellow, Fashinga's a jolly good fellow, Fashinga's a jolly good fellowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww and so says all of them.."

My Dear citizens of Blogsvillage, and even foreigners..Its your girls 'baiday' so rejoice with me as i get a year older..

I'm so thrilled right now, that i dont really know what to say but hopefully, i'll be back to post gist on how it went..

Blame it on the A-a-a-a-a-alchohol!!!!! lol!!!!!!!!!!!

Later luvs...Kisses!!!
Fashinga.